tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post97114984738379198..comments2024-02-11T02:09:12.650-06:00Comments on Crossing My Fingers but Not My Legs: "How many kids do you want?"Crossing My Fingershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01033052069822097103noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-13934996975322855342010-12-21T10:39:48.432-06:002010-12-21T10:39:48.432-06:00Sigh. It's one of those unexpected hard questi...Sigh. It's one of those unexpected hard questions. However many we'll be lucky enough to have...Conceptionally Challengedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18150395444721921607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-33467853543869930522010-12-20T20:11:47.169-06:002010-12-20T20:11:47.169-06:00I just laugh when people ask me how many - it seem...I just laugh when people ask me how many - it seems like a joke to me. I am sure they naively dont know any better, but I just want to say "Seriousely?" !!!!!!!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16022175407912153277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-68127494301075848842010-12-20T19:27:54.881-06:002010-12-20T19:27:54.881-06:00I agree, beautiful response xoxoI agree, beautiful response xoxoAngiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230190969225775629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-6676775317487259212010-12-20T18:43:44.723-06:002010-12-20T18:43:44.723-06:00It's so crazy that yesterday DH and I were tal...It's so crazy that yesterday DH and I were talking about hypotheticals and how we'd love twins to take off the pressure of wanting more than one kid...but we do agree that we'll take what we can get at this point and that it sucks so much that we have no control over any of this anymore.<br /><br />And yeah, IF and sadly multiple losses have made us lose out on the excitement of a BFP. Of course we'd be excited now, but it wouldn't be a naive or pure excitement. Just guarded. <br /><br />Sucks. All of this.Christahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03360238855647639317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-33361461413549927742010-12-20T16:13:10.434-06:002010-12-20T16:13:10.434-06:00So true. IF has def robbed us of those "dream...So true. IF has def robbed us of those "dreams" as well. Same with us - everyone knew we were doing IVF, so when the positive result came, it was a "well that's a good start." No "OMG, I can't believe it!" or other shouts of shock. <br />And during this pregnancy, which you will soon see - :) - IF has still robbed me of the joy. I unfortunately am still little bitter towards those who are due around me that got pregnant at a drop of the hat. I know that is a selfish feeling, but its the life of an IFer that I STILL live.kayeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04608074113581523217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-2714653149761396182010-12-20T14:54:06.699-06:002010-12-20T14:54:06.699-06:00Beautiful response. :o)Beautiful response. :o)Ceciliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10189734424083921632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-44775187140021088152010-12-20T14:30:15.402-06:002010-12-20T14:30:15.402-06:00Ooh, you hit the nail on the head with that one. W...Ooh, you hit the nail on the head with that one. We used to think three...then two... now I'm just praying we'll get the chance and the money to try for one. I hate IF.Joshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423295019681051881noreply@blogger.com