tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post6132924857183412974..comments2024-02-11T02:09:12.650-06:00Comments on Crossing My Fingers but Not My Legs: Let Me ExplainCrossing My Fingershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01033052069822097103noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-43691214438871382742011-02-13T19:42:06.678-06:002011-02-13T19:42:06.678-06:00IF changes everything, we always said we'd nev...IF changes everything, we always said we'd never use donor sperm....and that's what we did lol<br /><br />Hoping that you never get to that point of having to reconsider your plans :-)Jessica Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06801308494220195403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-42357144542613846442011-02-11T20:31:39.757-06:002011-02-11T20:31:39.757-06:00I don't know how many times I've changed m...I don't know how many times I've changed my mind myself. I stopped trying two years ago, and then a year later I embarked again on IUIs. Adotpion, for now, is not a choice, given that neither of us is a citizen. But you're right, you don't have to make any decisions now if you do not want to.Pearlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02557128777623361772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-69820021543508301872011-02-11T08:22:37.585-06:002011-02-11T08:22:37.585-06:00I don't think you should have to explain your ...I don't think you should have to explain your current IF plan to anyone. I agree with you 100% and if you change your mind(s) then so be it. :)Christahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03360238855647639317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-15220396727384542882011-02-11T07:39:38.490-06:002011-02-11T07:39:38.490-06:00I definitely know what you mean. And you're r...I definitely know what you mean. And you're right, our plans always change and that's ok. I remember when I was about 1 year in and I couldn't think about adoption either and would cry and get mad if people suggested it. It's all on your own time and up to you and your hubby.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-6227201966162015872011-02-10T20:49:58.334-06:002011-02-10T20:49:58.334-06:00One step at a time right sweetie :) xoxoxOne step at a time right sweetie :) xoxoxCOME ON BABYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13508080594311805199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8705523870502559866.post-80055422792014523252011-02-10T20:15:58.122-06:002011-02-10T20:15:58.122-06:00You are right...your 'IF plan' can change ...You are right...your 'IF plan' can change at a drop of a pin. For us, moving to adoption brings the same thoughts and concerns of further rejection AND waiting AND worries. It is so hard moving through IF and knowing when to move to the 'next step'. Sometimes I wish I was that little girl either dreaming of just adopting or being a work crazed junky instead of always dreaming about having a baby in my womb kicking me, keeping me up at night from pee'ing and waddling down the street. Ugggg...someday, I hope beyond hope, that we get BFP!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com